“Tiap Kali Saya Nak Pergi Pasaraya, Biras Terus Ikut, Dia Akan Ambil Barang-Barang Dia Kemudian Letak Di Kaunter Untuk Saya Bayar”

Assalamualaikum.

Dulu sy janda 3 org anak, bjumpa dgn lelaki bujang & menikah..Kini sy sarat mgandung 8bln anak ke 2 bsama suami baru.. Alhamdulillah pnikahan kami diterima baik dri kedua2 belah family.. Sy dpt Mak & Ayah Mertua yg baik sngat, tk prnah ptikaikn status sy seblom ni..juga menerima kehadiran anak2 sy dgn bekas suami dlu bgn baik..

Bgi mereka tiada istilah cucu tiri, mereka layan anak2 sy dgn baik..Bgitu juga suami sy, sedikit pun tk prnah memarahi anak2 tiri beliau…Kehidupan sy dgn suami mmg baik, tiada mslah wlupum baru menikah 4thn.. Kami sama2 bkerja.. Sy dah tk de kedua ibubapa, maka kedua ibubapa mertua sy, sy amat hormat & syg seperti org tua sy sndiri…

Yg menjadi mslah disini de la, biras sy (kakak ipar suami).. Biras sy ni mpunyai 2 anak lelaki, msih kecil 3thn & 2thn… Msalah pd sy, biras sy ni muka tebal & selamba.. Pernah sy pulang ke kmpg suami, pergi beli brg dpur..

Biras ni beria2 nk ikut.. ok la, sy tk kisah memandangkn bnyak brg dpur nk beli utk seminggu… sy jenis suka beli brg dpur buat mak mertua sbb sy tahu kami pulang ke kmpg pun bkn selalu, lgipun sy tahu sy de family yg besar.. jdi tk nk myusahkn mertua memikirkn nk msak apa bila setiap kali sy anak2 dgn suami pulang ke kmpg..

Bila setiap kali beli brg dpur, biras sy tgesa2 mgambil 2pax besar pampers, 1pax sabun basuh baju, 1pax besar milo.. Dia trus letak kt kaunter utk sy byar.. Pd mulaNya sy tk perasan, ingatkn utk kegunaan family (milo & sabun tu) tk persan pulak ttg pamperrs..

Bila smpai di rumah mertua, dia cepat2 asingkn brg2 yg dia ambil dipasaraya tu.. Adik ipar sy perasan, selalu pesan jgn bawa biras tu (kakak ipar dia) ikut ke pasaraya sekali.. Sy hnya senyum, tk berani bkata apa2..

Suami juga tahu hal ni, suami pun serba salah nk menegur, takot bmasam muka.. Biras sy tu duduk bdekatan dgn rumah mertua.. Setiap kali tahu kami akan pulang, setiap kali tu la dia pun sibuk bmalam di rumah mertua sehingga kami pulang ke KL..

Prnah cuba mgelak nk gi kedai snyap2, tahu2 dia dah standby dpan tangga rumah, tunggu sy dgn suami start kereta.. Mak mertua prnah tegur sikap dia, tpi dia ckp Alaa..sy dgn suami bnyak duit, pe salah sedekah beli brg pd anak2 dia…

Bru ni sy de belikn cadar 3set & langsir buat adik ipar utk menikah 1hb sept ni.. Semlm sy dpt msj dri adik ipar, kata sedih dgn sikap biras sy tu sbb biras tu ambil 1set cadar utk dirumahNya & 2helai langsir.. Adoiii..Kecewa & sedih sy dgn sikap dia… Bila col mak mertua, mak mertua kta tk berani tegur..

Apa perlu sy buat?? Sy tk nk jdi perbalahan..suami pulak kta suruh sabar, dia pun tk nk berbalah dgn abag kndung & kakak ipar dia.. Minta bgi pdapat yaaa…

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